I think I can say I told you so. For anyone that's read anything in my bitter blogging before. Ha. Ha. Bitter towards a certain piece of trash woman, who just so happens to be my ex's, ex. For years I fought with my husb for him to take action to make this piece of work be held responsible for US raising their kids. Oh, yes, my friends, she left all 3 children when they were toddlers and just a bit older for another. One I might add she was having a affair with. ANYWHO...I've gone over all her sorryness before and will try not to get into all that again. The major thing is, for the first time since her girls were 2, when they were about to turn 14, she made them feel like the grass would be greener on the other side. With her. All her bribing of "oh, I'm gonna get you this, and that, and we'll do this and that," won out over what the actual real parents had done for years. Their daddy and yes..me too. Well over 6 months ago, she packed up one of them and deposited her back home with dad. And now 6 months later almost exactly, the other one is coming back to the real home they ever had. No, I'm not there anymore. Been divorced for about 8 months from their dad. But we still do alot together, talk alot, he helps me out alot, and I do things for the girls and will always be there for them. Just like my own. I would never have turned them out for anything in the world. So, once again, that piece of worthless trash they call mother, has abandoned them ... again. First time where they were 2 and 8 and now again. I knew it would happen. I said it would happen. I tried to tell their daddy for years to make her pay child support. And I'm sure he still won't make her pay and she's actually got 2 more years left to make her pay. But, I'm sure that won't ever happen. For some reason he just has never made her do what's right and I'm sure nothing is going to change that! I'd make her pay out of her rear end if it were me. Resentful? Me? yep. I resent that for years I sacrificed to be able to do and support mine and his children. I resent the fact that while she ran around playing and buying and acting like she was somebody that she wasn't just to keep up with the Jones's, we were doing what decent loving parents do and trying to survive our marriage too. Which that failed and I do blame alot on her.
But I just wanted to vent and say that I knew it would happen. Everything I said for years about her, is all coming to be well known as the truth. Not because I was jealous, which I'd never be jealous of that bleached blond fake trash, but because I can see trash and worthlessness when I see it. And that heifer is at the top of the list.
Sorry for anyone reading this, but just needed to be right! :)
I invite all my friends and family members, extended wildly and beyond, to all come aboard to vent, give advice, comments, anything you wanna do and say. Cause that's what I'm gonna do! Take a minute to check it out. On the wild, (not so wild really), and wacky (very wacky) world of Patty.
2 comments:
The sad thing is, she probably only had them come back in the first place to make herself look good to others. She obviously did not get the Mom gene. The gene that says you will always be there for your children no matter what, you put your children ahead of all other things and you love your children more, much more than you love yourself.
You could not have said it any better Dena. Those are my thoughts exactly. Every word you said. It's hard to shake the feelings of something that affected my life for so many years and caused alot of destruction in my marriage. It is nice to know that it's not just me that see's this for what it's worth. Thanks.
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